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friendships with people you can actually talk about stuff with and have healthy boundaries and respectful disagreements >>>> weird shallow friendships full of “i love youuu i would die for you ur my wife” and baby talking
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parents got a new cat they named lord montague and this morning i heard my dad in the other room say "i would have to advise against that decision, my lord" followed by a crashing sound
Today I had a full non-verbal shutdown for the first time in years. I’ll spare you specific details because they’re a) not important, and b) personal, but I’ll give you the gist. This morning, my carefully constructed plans were majorly (and I mean majorly) thrown off at the last (and I mean the LAST) minute. This provided me not only with a major routine change, but also with two simultaneous very difficult decisions (one of which involved a large amount of money) that I was expected to make quickly. As you can imagine, this sent me into a total state of shutdown where I was completely unable to move, speak, eat, or process any information, let alone make a damn decision.
Autism can suck. Even if you love being autistic and wouldn’t change it for the world and don’t want there to be a cure, that doesn’t mean it’s always easy and fun. This is the part of autism that fucking sucks and can be embarrassing to talk about, especially when you’re an adult who’s expected to be beyond this. But the point of this post is to show you that you’re not alone if you feel this way too. It’s okay to recognise when something is too much for you to handle and to remove yourself from the situation until you feel like you are more prepared to tackle it. Even if other people are counting on you or awaiting your response, they can learn to wait. It’s better for them to receive a late response when you have a clearer head than an immediate response made when you’re in a heightened emotional state. If you really need to, you can even straight up tell them - “I’m not equipped to make a rational decision right now. I will get back to you as soon as I am.”
Know your boundaries. Know when something isn’t possible for you, no matter what other people think. And know that you are loved, appreciated and valued, just the way you are.







